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Start Your Marriage Strong:

Premarital Counseling for Lasting Love

Are you ready to take on the adventure of marriage?

Premarital counseling gives you the tools to navigate life’s challenges and build a strong, lasting partnership.

Learn how to communicate effectively, handle conflicts with grace, and align your future goals

all before saying 'I do.'


Start with a Free 30-Minute Session Today!

Is Your Relationship Ready for Marriage?

Do you sometimes wonder if you're truly prepared for the challenges of married life?

Does navigating differences and aligning your future goals feel overwhelming?

Premarital Counseling provides a personalized approach to building a strong foundation for your marriage, ensuring you're equipped for a lifetime of love and partnership.

Take the first step toward a thriving marriage.

Start today with a free 30-minute consultation

Easy Scheduling

Choose the time that best works for you and I'll call you at that time. Simple as that!

No Cost. No Commitment.

This call allows us to get to know each other.

No cost and no commitment required.

Be Seen within 24 hours

We can often accommodate emergency services and see you within 24 hours!

About Me


Orange County Couples Counselor Kathleen Wenger

Kathleen Wenger,

M.A., Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

Certifications and Experience

  • Over 20 years as a private practitioner specializing in Premarital Counseling
  • Co-founder of MarriageFriendlyTherapists.com
  • President, The National Honor Society in Psychology (Psi Chi Pepperdine Chapter)
  • Straus Institute of Family Mediation Certificate
  • Orange County Adoption Clinical Training Certificate

Hi, I’m Kathleen Wenger, and I’m here to help you start your marriage on the right foundation. As a licensed therapist with over 20 years of experience in relationship counseling, I specialize in helping couples navigate the complexities of love, communication, and shared goals.

I understand that preparing for marriage can feel overwhelming. That’s why I create a safe and supportive space where you and your partner can address important topics—like communication styles, conflict resolution, finances, and values—before you say, “I do.”

Through my personalized approach, I’ve guided countless couples toward stronger connections, deeper understanding, and a shared vision for their future. My goal is to help you feel confident, prepared, and excited to begin this next chapter of your life together.

Let’s work together to give your marriage the best possible start.

What is Premarital Counseling?

Premarital counseling is your guide to building a strong, lasting foundation for your marriage.

It’s not just about preparing for the big day—it’s about preparing for a lifetime of love, partnership, and shared goals.

Marriage brings incredible joys, but it also comes with challenges. Through premarital counseling, you’ll learn how to navigate common hurdles, from managing finances and handling conflict to balancing personal needs and shared values.

These sessions provide the tools and insights you need to foster trust, communication, and resilience in your relationship.

Here’s what you can expect:

  • Identify Strengths and Areas for Growth: Understand what makes your relationship unique and how to build on its strengths.
  • Discuss Key Topics: Explore important subjects like communication styles, conflict resolution, financial planning, and parenting expectations.
  • Learn Practical Skills: Gain proven strategies to resolve disagreements and align your visions for the future.

Whether you’re navigating differences or simply want to start your marriage on solid ground, premarital counseling helps you and your partner approach marriage with confidence and clarity.

Ready to build the marriage you’ve always dreamed of? Start today with a free 30-minute consultation.

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Book a Free 20 Minute "Get to Know Us" Call

Easy Scheduling

Choose the time that best works for you and I'll call you at that time. Simple as that!

Free 20-Minute Call

This call allows us to get to know each other.

No cost and no commitment required.

Be Seen within 24 hours

We can often accommodate emergency services and see you within 24 hours!

Preparing for Premarital Counseling

Preparing for marriage involves much more than merely arranging for a wedding party or shopping for the wedding dress. It involves understanding the implications of entering a lifetime covenant.

During pre-marriage counseling I will seek information regarding overall planning after marriage, relationships and financial information. To help you get a better idea, here are a few sample premarital counseling questions, that can be asked during a counseling session. The actual questionnaire contains more questions, related to the particular category, however, the gist of the premarital counseling questions will be similar to the list below.

Premarital Questions to Ask Yourself

Questions for After Your Marriage

  • How much time would you spend with your family daily?
  • How do you plan to distribute domestic work between the two of you?
  • Have you prepared a budget for after the marriage?

Questions About Your Relationship

  • Do you feel happy when you spend time with your partner?
  • Are you willing to sign a prenuptial agreement?
  • Any behavioral change you expect from your partner?
  • Do you think you can maintain a sound sexual and emotional relationship with your partner?

Questions About Your Finances

  • Are you in any kind of debt? How have you planned to repay it?
  • Are you medically insured?
  • Have you made any investments?